Lets be honest…How many girls have you met in person & they haven’t swiped right to you because of your ONLINE dating profile?
Most likely a few and from my experience most of the time these guys don’t look like their profiles.
My ex boyfriend and I met on tinder and to be honest, he had a terrible dating profile. I was at the hairdressers, bored, so I got swiping to see what potential was in that area of town. His profile popped up and I was unsure whether or not to swipe right to him so i asked my hairdresser.
Her response was- “sure, what have you got to lose?”, so, I swiped right! I wasn’t swiping right because of his looks because that was the part I was actually unsure of.
There were a few draw cards that made me swipe right to him. His age was good for me at that point in time, he also looked healthy and into sports, his bio wasn’t good and his location was super close to me (how convenient!). As an added bonus, when we matched he was nice and easy to talk to.
GUYS PLEASE NOTE, YOU CAN NOT GET OFFENDED if someone is NOT attracted to you. YOU will never be able to please everyone. Why would you honestly want to lie to someone and pretend to be someone or something you’re not?! That stress load would be massive and that will just add to your built up frustration… (insert water splash emoji here haha)
When I say “get a hot girl to swipe right” I mean your version of obtainable HOT.
Like my goal would be for Channing Tatum to swipe right to me but damn,that isn’t obtainable in my eyes!
Most dating app’s are known to be “sex orientated” and regularly used by most people who are looking for casual hook ups. God bless the one’s searching for their soul mate on these apps, its like finding a needle in a hay stack, not impossible but you have to have a eye for it.
REMEMBER: ITS NOT ALWAYS A SWIPE LEFT BECAUSE OF YOUR LOOKS!
Don’t be hard on yourself, you could be a total babe and just haven’t portrayed yourself correctly.
Who always needed help with work resume’s and making themselves look and sound good for job applications? I know I DID!
You know you are a catch so let’s show people you are.
Here are some tips to alter your dating profile:
LOCATION, LOCATION, LOCATION
If you pay a dating app subscription for the extra benefits, you can generally turn off your location or change it 😉 just saying!
I get it, you could have possibly used all your swipe rights up and the good looking girls attention you want have been missed… don’t worry we can fix this…and if you are feeling desperate you will probably extend your location to max location settings.. haha I know I am guilty of this also.
SELFIES ARE A BIG NO NO! ESPECIALLY GYM SELFIES!
Pictures with your friends are of course good, but not in every single picture. It makes you seem like you are trying to cover up what you look like. Girls love seeing photos of you in your natural environment, whether that be at the pub or at the beach.
Your bio sums you up in a few sentences, so make sure you make some sort of an impact. Be funny, have a joke, but don’t talk about how much money you earn… that is a major turn off..
MESSAGE THE GIRL FIRST
Shivery isn’t dead people! Making the effort to send a msg to a girl first could win you brownie points, just make sure it’s not a dick pic.
I hope some of these tips helped you along in the virtual dating world! Please comment any other subjects you would like me to cover!
Love Cherry xx